You can take the Ace test by googling "Ace quiz"...Vanilla usually recommends the one by aces too high. Once you find them online, you'll figure out what she means. One quiz is based on your childhood, the other on your resiliency.

Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti