A couple questions I've been wondering about, for anyone who survived an A of S's, or was involved in an affair that ended:

--How long did the A last? did the "New" wear off"

--what was the most important factor contributing to the ending of the A?

--Did the LBS do something that had a significant influence on the decision to end the A?

Just turning many things over in my mind, it would be interesting to hear from someone who's "been through it"

been around awhile!