Hi Huddy. Just my pennies worth but your treading a fine line here. For me your on the right side of that line but I feel it's very easy to cross during the exchanges with W.

Confidant , in control and leading are attractive to W , smug , know all and tough sh@t for leaving me isn't. As I say you have t crossed the line in my eyes but maybe less convo when W gets nasty would be good

Again just my pennies worth Glad it's easier for you to deal with

Take care. Rd