In the UK - need help (pt15)

[Huddy]

Ah, the homeless shelter. Her decision to leave, but, apparently my fault that I haven't found her accommodation. I'm uncaring, apparently, as I should see to her needs. Said that I wasn't being fair as I had left her to fend for herself and that going to the council was 'the only option, available to her'. No, the option would be to stay in the marriage!

She goes on 23 November to find out where she is actually going to end up. I'm just validating like crazy at the minute. I admit, readily now, that up to about four months ago, my DB techniques were awful!

I don't know if I'm wrong, but I feel no guilt, no neediness, no - well, nothing right now. I'm just doing things for me and my kids right now.