feels better, I think....at least that's where I'm intending to go! I'm getting really tired of being frantic and overwhelmed, although it still catches me sometimes. link to other piecing thread (I hope) http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=671345&page=0&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=31&fpart=1 I can still use some input from yesterdays post in that old thread Today H is still more distant than last weekend, although he seems friendly and cheerful and We're going to go look at weights tonight! that's a baby step...he hasnt wanted to do ANYTHING with me for a long, long time. This morning I surprised him by changing my work hours and staying home...didn't have a chance to wear my thong and cami around the house though because he got S on school bus and came back to bed and all on his own. hehehe works for me. I did get on the scales today and I'm down 52 or 53 pounds! yes! still got a ways to go...but by golly I am going to get a bikini before we go on vacation! yes! yes! yes! yes! well, ok, maybe a "tankini" but I'm going to get there by fall (goal weight) come hell or high water. Could sure use any insight/interpretation on my sitch posted in last pathetic sounding thread! I still have trouble staying detached...am still working on fun stuff goals just for me I'm really trying to put OW clear out of my mind....is it really possible to get there? How?????? I guess I kind of think that will be big turning point for me, if not for M. Thanks for any input!
all on his own. hehehe works for me. 