That's why I struggle. Is being her friend the first step to rebuilding? It seems like I have read it both ways on here
Why don't you google chemical attraction, and then maybe you will see things more clearly.
I won't say friendship never turns into love and a couple get married, but I strongly agree about chemical attraction.
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I agree. It is also part of being M.
Yes, but are you filling the position of being her H? I thought she fired you and replaced you with OM. If she's still contacting OM, then you should not act like you are M to her. You are separated, yet you continue being the nice-guy type with her.
Read about the push-pull under chemical attraction.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
