W texted me at work, good sign, it was mostly how good the kids are doing at MIL's and drop off times. I will wait a while before I respond.
There is a promotion available at my job. Not sure if I should tell my W I am going to apply for it. It would be more money but also pull me further ahead as far as alimony and the difference in how much we make. We are not at that point but is a consideration. The more I make the more I pay her if we D.
If I tell her it might look like pursuing as this has been an issue for her, how much money I make.
But this is a boundary that I think she should not have any say in what I do for work, that is my choice, for better or worse for rich or poor.
She in the past and an argument two days ago, was suggesting that I need to make more money.
This is a promotion that I was looking for years ago regardless of what she was saying. It just seems like bad timing, with the S and living in limbo.
Can I deal with the stress of a new job and get through a stressful D?
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
