Asitis, it is so good to "hear" from you, it sounds like you are doing well. Please pay extra attention to your son's OCD, as you probably know my D14 has it and it, and every other problem you can imagine, gets so much worse when puberty hits (and puberty starts earlier than the physical changes, you will start to notice emotional changes earlier than you expect) , you want to manage that as best as you can now. I know you are the expert, but I am living it!

One thing I noticed from your post, is that your focus is definitely not on your W anymore. It also seems like your thinking is solidly in the present, with some thought towards the future. I give you an A in mental health! Also glad you aren't flirting with 20 year olds, lol. Looking forward to your take on my sitch when/if you get the time, it is probably another sign of health and moving forward to spend less time here, but I miss you and your insight.

Hope you have a great day.