Your independence, inner strength and conviction are very attractive and your H is drawn to them but if he's not emotionally strong enough to deal with them, he either needs to work on himself or take a hike, the choice is his and his alone.
I totally agree! I might refrain from telling him that though...
In this instance there is no might.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?