Thanks for the pick me up you made me feel alot better. I guess what I'm actually wondering about her getting in trouble at work is if that will send further into affair or push her out of it. I suppose it probably depends on the person.
Yep, it may or it may not have an impact. Either way you have no influence so let it go and focus back on you.
Originally Posted By: SadJeff
On another note my W this morning was looking over my shoulder at my phone trying to see what I was doing when i was just chilling on the sofa. Is this typical type of behavior from my W that i will see when i start to pull back like i have been doing?
Yep, and this is a time to politely but firmly set a boundary saying "Please respect my privacy as I respect yours". If she persists warn her again that her behavior is unacceptable and that you will leave the room if she persists. If she does continue, get up and leave the room.
By doing this kind of thing she will gain a little bit of respect for you, so don't be scared, it's all part of you becoming a new better you.
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