Originally Posted By: Zephyr

I heard something yesterday that made me say, that is just stupid. Then like 10 minutes later I had to write it down. And stare at it.

'There is no past, there is no future, only right now.'

We can't live in the past anymore. Our spouses are not the same as who they are. We aren't either.

We have no idea what the future holds, which although may seem scary...is actually starting to excited me because I am starting to treat this life as an adventure instead of a scripted path that had been set for ever. No wonder she got bored with me...oh and I was just as bored.

Today, right now is all we really have. Go have yourself a good day, I thought I typed you a note about going a treating yourself to something different, yesterday but can't seem to find it (wonder how many posts didn't load that I've typed over the months).

Go and do something for you TODAY. You said it will be nice to be around someone who truly loves you...it starts with you loving yourself. Even if it something as silly as going to an ice cream parlor to have a Sunday and read a book...that is a treat for you. Start treating yourself like you are worthy of love, BECAUSE YOU ARE!


Living in the present moment is all we can do. It is very easy to get lost in thought about the past or the future, none of that can be changed, we can alter our destiny by what we do in this very moment and it's all that matters...


- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow
- Consult your plan, not your feelings
- If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?