Spiff, I thank you for stopping by and your words of encouragement! I may have a little down time later today and try to catch up on your sitch. I followed it early but I have had a lot going on and fell behind on a few. One thing I want to point out is that a lot of what I have done, is not DB. I understand the concepts and all of that, I have a hard time with keeping my mouth shut and doing the right thing at times. I get to caught up in the moment.

Sotto, thank you also. In the end we would be giving each other another chance. Yes she was the WAS. I had my hand in pushing her to that point. What I want is for XF and I to raise our son together and I feel right now, that I will take on any challenge that stands in the way of that. Tomorrow may be different. Next week may be different. But that is where I am right now. Don't get me wrong, no "free passes". I would have to see genuine effort and a lot of trying on her side of the court.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home