Texted my wife to tell her plans for son at Christmas. She said ok but then started to complain that our son never wants to be with her and treats her badly. I think she wants to be in our lives but is beginning to realize that at the moment we find it hard to be with her. I keep trying to point out that things have changed, that she isn't there but she just keeps saying I'm his mother, I love him and want to do things with him. She thinks he should be a connection between us not a wall. I have told her everyone needs time to think what they want for themselves and others. I want her to really begin to see that she can't have everything
