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[AU Bob]

That's the Issue.
I am not going to invite her. But I am sure she will tell the kids "dads just being negative" so either way you can't win.
I have been going out a bit more, and she has made some sarcastic comments to the children about it. Although its OK for her to do it.
One of the reasons she said to me why she left is that she wants "no strings" but they still want the family (children grand children) there for when they want that family thing. Its a bit selfish to just want to slip back in when they feel like it and then go back to doing their "own thing" again afterwards. I spose she has felt like she missed out on life while bringing up the children and being a wife, but sorry that's what having a family is, you sometimes have to make sacrifices, the same as I had to. I didn't cut and run because I needed to focus on myself. That's why its hard to do now, I still feel responsible for my children. I'm not saying she dose not still do things for them, but its when she chooses most of the time, not when they ask.