Thank you so much Rouky. You are my best friend and your perspective always lifts my spirits. If I live to be a thousand years old I will never forget what you have done for me. Your husband is an idiot for treating you the way that he is but I think that unfortunately there is something Darwinian(natural selection) about his and my wife's behavior. Just be sure that going forward that you do not accept less that your expectations from a man whether that is from your husband or the next lucky guy that gets to call you his wife.
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.