Ok, this I can answer... sorry I am so dense today.
Requests. I turned down 2 the last 3 weeks. Have done probably 4 or 5.
Texts, if it's about the boys I answer. The rest maybe 50/50
Talking to her, we always talk.
My needs ahead of hers, well that is where the whole pushing for an answer comes in. Her needs are being met, as far as I know. She says there is no OM, and I have no evidence the other way. I am not snooping, but it's a small town... financially, she has the better end of the deal during S, but after D it will be much easier on me and harder on her.
If we D, that will be a huge wake up call to her. She makes less than half my wages, yet has nearly twice the income right now after my support/mortgage etc. Plus, she will have to work full time to get insurance. More daycare, less time with the kids, etc. This may serve to be a foglifter. Hope it doesn't get there, but I am going to have a hard time buying stuff for christmas and bdays, etc. Kinda off topic there.
Ok, where can I improve on this?
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
