6 months in the storm

[Vanilla]

Thanks V

I am fuming over STBXH right now. I just got the email about the cell plan being cancelled and I have 14 days to get on a plan on my own or my phone will be shut off. I guess me asking for him to wait until I was financially okay didn't go over well.

Insanity is dong the same thing and expecting different results. You need your own plan.

I am so tired of taking the high road. I give him everything and compromise with him when he needs something and I never get anything from him.

You chose the high road, choose a different road. Collaboration isn't about one sided compromise. It's about working through professionals to get that which you want. That isnt beng obstructive, or deliberately difficult but about looking after your fins not Hs. Tran him to give n return, you do this and I do that.

He has no compassion or empathy for anyone but himself.

You expected.......

I will follow my plan and I won't say anything to him.

Yes, cards, close, chest in any order.

I will shut the phuck up but gawd am I pissed.

Buttons, pressed, again.

I am starting to reach a point where I don't think he will ever become unselfish and will always expect everything handed to him and for everyone else to take care of everything for him.

Oh my dear! Always? Forever? Judging? Criticising?

I do not want that in a mate. I want a leader. I want a man to be a man but soft enough to show compassion when needed. I need someone to listen to my cries and not get upset with me for having feelings.

I love this, and what else do you want?

rant over

Feel better!! Well done, lesson learned?

V