Need Help

[ATPeace]

Hi AU Bob

I am sorry you have found yourself here

I have been on this journey for the past 5 months and it takes time for things to settle and then it is about what do you want to do

I am finding out more and more each day and I think you will also but what I will say the people here really are fantastic I am not the best divorce buster however I realise I have made mistakes and I am trying to make things better however this is a very difficult process

I realised in my marriage I was controlling and something I have come to realise from making many mistakes is that I have to let her go let her make her decisions I was very jealous of her seeing a male friend I felt threatened however if she is going to do something then she will and me checking up on her is not going to make this stop from happening

So you will have to accept she is on a journey we are all here with mostly the same basis and as hard as it will be I know I really struggle read my threads if you don't believe me ....you have to give her the freedoms to make her decisions

I am trying to take my own advice

I hope and pray that things work out for you ghost