LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (4)

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This morning WW asked again about getting more of the equity because I'm keeping the house.

I told her "I'm frustrated by that bc I have a lot of bad memories in the house too and the main reason I'm stretching my finances to stay is to maintain some normalcy for D4. D4 has asked several times about living there forever."

She said "you don't get to feel frustrated".

I said "Yes I do. They are my feelings and I have a right to my feelings"

She said " You don't get to dump your frustration on me. I'm frustrated because I thought we were going to live her forever."

she began to leave the room and I said "You're the one choosing to leave, not me."

She said " you forget what the catalyst was for all this." and slammed the door shut.

I shouldn't have expressed my feelings of frustration to her. she has never acknowledged or validated my feelings and I didn't expect her to this time. I did want her to know I only want to stay in the house for D4.

She continues to want to live in the past, rewrite history so that everything is my fault and accept 0 part of the blame for our M falling apart. Still not surprising. It's been only recently when she first admitted to being wrong about anything.
She accepts no responsibility for her actions or words. She blames her A's on me. I do not accept this blame. Her choices her consequences. Her circus...her monkeys.