I have to be firm on my boundaries. I won't live in what is basically an open marriage or in-house divorce. I am not going to nice her to death hoping to outlast the EA if she is still involved in that. I know she is hoping she gets to pursue that, which is just as bad. I talked to a real-estate agent.


H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21
M:12 BD:1/15
In-house Separation 2/15
DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15
Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16
Reconciliation 1/17
Obviously still struggling