Need to vent....I'm thankful for this place

1. Since a year ago Aug when I was unfaithful my WW's verbal, emotional and physical abuse was magnified to more than anyone should ever endure

2. In May she began her 1st of at least 3 A's. She often used these A's to hurt me more. Saying things such as "I'm glad I f'd him, he was so good, I wish I was doing it again now".

3. In sept she filed D

4. She initially wanted no child support but then changed her mind while at the family court facilitator. I've agreed to some. It's not a lot but it's still more than $0. D scheduled to be finalized on Dec 18th

5. On Tuesday we were audited by the IRS. That's fun. I spent several days preparing for it. I need to get them a good amount of additional receipts but at this moment if I do not provide the receipts we owe $17K

6. Last week my good friend and coworkers 3 week old niece passed away

7. Yesterday a family friend passed away

8. Yesterday WW told me she was told she should receive more than 50% of the equity

9. bought a new truck which is a blessing but the 1st dealership cashed a $5K check that they were not supposed to cash. I'm getting it back but it's a hassle.

10. This morning WW said she was staying with the boys at their dad's house bc dad is out of town. D4 asked if there was a bed there that she could sleep with mommy and daddy in it. Breaks my heart.

*sigh* That feels better


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place