That's what I thought too. The mortgage guy said that sometimes they calculate what the house may increase in value over the next year and then use that number. We've been seeing 10% increases year over year. I'm not paying her potential value increase over the next year. She's the one pushing for the D to happen quickly. Seems like I should have some leverage here.


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place