I have a van to cart stuff about for the next three weeks. Where I work (a company of 2000+ people) the Directors have been very good to me. One of them has given me the van, free fuel for as long as I like until the job is done. Paid time off to see to legal matters etc., I feel I am incredibly lucky....my W, however does not.

I offered, since I have the van, to move any rubbish/junk that she has to the tip on Sunday. It's stuff that needs to go for the move, so I'm not being over helpful, just want to avoid any legal nasties after we've left. So, W says 'Why have they given you a van?', 'Why are they letting you have time off?', 'I don't understand why they're being so good to you'. Because they genuinely care about me and saw me at my worst in April/May, when I was basically a walking skeleton who couldn't really function.

So, W can't understand why I am being helped and not her. I suppose, one day, she might look at her situation and realise that people don't see hurt, unless it is being directed at somebody who doesn't deserve it.


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015