So conflicted. Seperated from my wife.

[Huddy]

I did all this stuff four months ago. Get your arse in gear, have a couple of weeks away from the forum, then get back here to sort your position out!

I know exactly how you feel. Nothings working; the talking's not working; it's time to give up and forget it - wrong. This is the time you realise that actually you haven't been doing very well and you need to revisit everything from the beginning. You're looking way too much in to the actions of your W. You should really be working on yourself, so that your W will eventually start to notice and the dynamic changes.

It's not easy bud, but you can do this. Azzork is a master at goal setting. Let him talk you through a few and it'll start to click in to place.