Wow, mind is blown 10

[Uphill]

I told my family and any friends that I have spoken to about the situation to basically cut the $hit. Explained it that I am in now way saying they are wrong to defend themselves, BUT every time they do, it's making my life harder. Lately it hasn't been near as bad as it was. There is still one "friend" of hers who makes sly, ignorant comments and you know where they are directed. Difference is, nobody is giving her a reaction. That is a huge plus!