My S went swimming for the first time yesterday at school. Autistic children find it difficult to maintain the coordination that swimming requires.

My W showed me the pictures when I came home from work. No warmth, but at least she had the decency to share the pictures with me. I may, however, have made a mistake. I queried if he was going to swimming every week and if there was a cost. Now, I was asking about the cost, because I wanted to make sure there was enough money for him to go. My W, however, made a sarcastic remark about it 'not costing anything'. I didn't say anything, as that wasn't my meaning, and instead I just spent the next few minutes congratulating my S on his achievements.

The lesson is, you can never satisfy a WW/WAW until they have made their mind up to come out of the fog.


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015