I hope so dday, maybe due to where I live it took that conversation and some of the things i said to make her realize I'm not always going to be waiting? I don't live in a large town where people blend in. I guess it is more of a village. No matter how mysterious I was, no matter how much I GAL, there is always somebody that would tell her if I had another girl around. I mean, I can drive through town and tell you who owns which car. If there is a strange one around neighbors ask questions. Don't get me wrong, it's nice to know that the neighbor watch your stuff! But in a situation like this she almost has to know she would have heard if I did "move on".
Funny story about how our little town works. My next door neighbor was on his porch one night and heard 2 guys under my deck at my basement door. He went in his house and got a "protection device". Waited around the corner for them because he knew I was at work and XF and S4 were there alone. My best friend and another buddy came out carrying some stuff I was storing for him. Neighbor said you F--kers are lucky I recognize your face! Haha So sometimes it's nice to have a close knit community for the built in security system, other times like this it's tough to hide or blend in...
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home