Hi Zeph! I have a couple of thoughts for you. Regarding CSA, boy, that can be a rough one. The women I know who have difficulty with relationships because of it don't sound too much like your W. Ironically, they seem to flit from man to man without a care. They cannot trust, so the opportunity for a real connection is probably slim. On the other hand, I do know some WAS got help early ans did a lot of reading and learning on the dubject. Their marriages are pretty successful.
It's not a death knell if your suspicions are correct. It just means more patiience.
Is it possible you are watching your wife too closely? I can't back up the statement with clear evidence, but is an impression I got when reading your thread. Something to think about.
