We've said it before and we can say it again, we're both in similar boats. But let's also agree to be hell bent on being our best and looking our finest if the boats sink.
I hope that somewhere people get to read what you write with your name attached to it. Perhaps a best seller in the near future...
What are your goals my friend? I'm happy to help you. I'm also so sorry your W cannot see the majesty in you Mutatio.
I too was co dependent, I understand it. It's our worst nightmare come true to have to live through our, well, worst nightmare. I firmly believe that if we can survive this, we can survive anything. It's an opportunity to find all the ways that we hid behind the beauty of our wives and the comfort of their presence.
Take your work in the next few months seriously Mutatio, this is effort of the highest order. We are literally patching the holes that have grown in our spirits, that we ignored due to having W's and M's. Once patched though, we will be stronger than ever, and whole.
If you W doesn't want the strongest, most whole version of Mutatio, then she simply doesn't deserve your time and presence. Her loss.
Be well,
PP
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M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
