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[vise82]

Hey tonight tryied to have a converstion with W about some money that was put into the joint account by mistake from my employer. W think she is entitled to her half of it.

Long story short it turned into a fight of how I don't make enough money and that it everyones problem but mine, and I am not willing to get a second job. I am pushing a budget right now and W wants nothing to do with it, she doesn't need one, we don't make enough to have one she says. But she told me that bill are going to be late this winter to pay for Christmas and birthdays party.

Everything I said I didn't want to do, I said to cut back. she said what we are not going to have a birthday party for our son??

She is out of control with money I think we need to see a financial adviser or something because I have no control over this situation. Even with separate accounts.