What is the worst that could happen if you didn't invite her?
What is the worst that could happen if you did invite her?
The answer lies in which is the better of the two and only you can answer it.
It's your birthday and she has gone wayward on you and the family so you forgive her because it's your birthday? Some will say "That's a bit weird, isn't it?"
It's you birthday and she has gone wayward on you and he family so you don't forgive her, many would say, "good for you", some would say "that's a bit spiteful".
In other words you can't win.
Maybe look at it this way, neither will probably make a difference to how she feels about you, sadly that happened a while ago, so make a decision and stick by it, be a man and start to gain her respect by being decisive. Tell you kids once about your decision and if they question you, ask them to respect your decision as it is final.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
