Awesome post Zephyr(Mark), you have learned so much on this journey and I see it's not been easy. The internal growth you have experienced is worth it and can only help you in the future. I think we all want our S's to help but we may just be at the point where we have done all we can and it's their time to figure things out. I know that's been my thoughts the last few days. I guess patience is all that's left, that and time to see how it all plays out. Stay strong buddy.
-John
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be