Even though I didn't get my wife back I've learned so much from reading and being on this forum. I will use all this in the future with future relationships to make sure this doesn't happen again. Thanks everyone. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers
Sorry to hear that's where you're at, but I get it. I'm in the same boat, after a few weeks of doing the "pick me" dance, then several more months of the best DBing principles I could apply, and it wasn't making any difference. How long do you allow your W to make an open mockery of your M before you decide you can't take it any longer?
Good luck in your journey, wherever that may lead. Take your lessons to heart, and I really hope you do find happiness in the future.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.