Thanks Avanti Im well on the road to GAL I have started going out again with friends and started some old hobby's and going to the gym. I switched gyms for two reasons one the OM "just friend" is an instructor there, and second it was just awkward trying to not be there when she was. I have had other women ask me out, but I have been reluctant to do this, at this stage I just feel more comfortable going out with a group of people, I only took my wedding ring off about a month ago and am a little unshore about it still. I don't think she has gone out with the OM on a one on one date, but he seems to show up at every night out with the girls and social gatherings she goes to and he even showed up at an open day at W's kindergarten, admittedly his daughter has started working there, although I thought it a little weird that a parent of a worker would show up? I have my 50th birthday in three weeks, what should I do there? should I invite her?
H 50 W 46 T 31 M 24 EA 11.11.15 PA not sure. Dx3 Separated 5.12.15 (not legally)
