Believe none of what they say and only 50% of what you actually see! Yes, she said "One of the things she also said was that you can't ever go back with new tools and skills and start fresh with an old person. "
Bah. Look at that sentence logically. Lets say what was broken was a wall that needed painting and the paint brush broke. Do you really think she believes there is no way a paint sprayer can fix the problem?
Of course new tools can fix problems, so try and brush her words off. Look at the big picture. You had a long, nice conversation with your wife. And you did not end up pushing her further away!
I would say that is one heck of a baby step. So I am struggling to see how the next day your posts speak of D. D is looming, but another 90 minutes phone conversation MIGHT be looming as well! (no expectations...)
Since you are not allowed to have expectations, I will hold onto them for you and sit here patiently and wait for your post on your next nice conversation.
BTW, I hope the swap went well!
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
