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[vise82]

Hey,

I am at a weird spot right now, with my S6 birthday my W is talking to me a lot more as we are planning it. Looks like she is putting off talk of selling the house till the new year.

She has mentioned about going together on the kids Christmas gifts.

right now that is how we are doing it, we have a joint account and all the house and kids needs are paid through that.

It ben a stressfull time together, I was angry towards her.

Now that I have GAL going and I am more confident. Taking back the MBR has helped my confidence.

I want to start being the H that she would be crazy to leave. But I don't also want to get back into the do everything W says like in the old MR.

Am I sliding right now, giving into what W wants? Because really Christmas is for the kids. But I am thinking that if I go to her parents like last year like everything is the same should I do that? I am stronger now, I think I could handle it for the most part.I just don't want to mess everything that I been DBing up.