Mona, I have a question that might or might not help. How is it that it became okay for him to stay up all night playing games while you slept alone? Did you guys talk about it? Were you disconnecting in your daily lives? Does H have depression, or was he in some way unhappy in his daily life, so that he sought refuge in gaming? Does he have an addictive personality?
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Okay, that was more than one question, but I find that understanding the reason something happened makes it easier for me to empathize somewhat and forgive.
By the way...love the jail remark! Keeping very, very quiet.