Newcomer Looking For Advice

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We swept it all under the rug and did well for a while. It was a big mistake to not see a MC back then.

Thanks for your advice Mutatio. When i found out about my W's A we talked about our issues and i suggested seeing a MC she was a little reluctant because she has battled depression before we met and had seen several therapists and counselors and said she didnt enjoy that. However, she did agree and said that she felt like show owes it to me and us since we have been together 10 years.

Now doing some reading in here and on google i see suggestions to beware the MC. People have concerns they are not focused on saving the M. Should i still go forward with booking a session with a MC. Any Thoughts?