Hi focus,

You are so right, you cannot control him, just yourself. You may forget this line every once in a while, especially when he does something so crazy. But keep it front and center and mentally you won't be dragged down to his level.


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!