Is it not frustrating that they totally don't listen?

You always hear that communications are at the root of most marital conflicts and here you are spelling out your wishes and needs clearly so there is no misunderstanding and then he does the exact opposite. My H does the same.
Pisses me off because it feels so deliberate. Like they want to get a rise out of you by doing the opposite of what you asked for. We have to stay calm and pick our battles.

Yes I think option one is the best for now. It is not big enough of an issue to get into a fight about it.

Last edited by Di-mond; 11/11/15 02:52 PM.
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