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[Di-mond]

Hi Mona,

I totally get the obsessive thoughts about H.
He is the last thing I think about before going to sleep and my first thought when I open my eyes. I wish he wasn't, but he is. My H, like yours spends his days sleeping, playing video games and then working the night shift at his new job. He has a little tiny apartment, filled with comic books, super hero figures and video game and Star War posters on the walls. He functions enough to do his laundry, buy groceries, cooks for himself and goes to work, but that is it. Nothing more!

We had such a full life of going out with our motorcycle club, taking care of our animals, visiting with family and friends. Now that has stopped. He only thinks of himself. I found I too stopped living. It has been so painful doing it on my own.

Now, like you I am moving. Sold my home and starting today taking bit by bit out of my house and into my new condo. New beginnings! I'm hoping to get out of this rut and GAL from now on.

Question I always have in my mind is how can they choose a virtual life through video games over a flesh and blood person that cares and loves them?!