Try to remember she needs to come to the answers for herself as well. You can't dictate them to her. Sometimes it is okay to not give her your answer. Sometimes they can be seen as your answer and not hers.

Just my .02

Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015