Wow, mind is blown 10

[Uphill]

Sorry, it got a bit late and when our convo was over I went to bed.

Quick summary, XF has fears of the damaged relationships with everybody involved. I validated the fact that there is damage on many fronts, and assured her that I would be willing to help where I can. I also at one point said that #1 priority is S4 and his happiness. As long as he is happy with whatever happens the others don't matter. We are grown adults and people will respect our decision. It will take time but if they see is trying they will follow suit. Another thing I said was that we have talked more and opened up about more these past few days than we did the past 6 months combined. And all it took to get there was a honest, calm conversation.

Overall, still anxious... Lots of good communication over the past 2 days.