Well it has almost been a month since she moved out. The second weekend we got together with our son to celebrate his birthday. She was very affectionate and loving. It all felt so right but of course afterward she went back to him. In other conversations she has admitted her new life isn't what she expected but she is going to try to make it work and not to wait for her. She has discovered that her son doesn't want her to come around and only really sees her when he has to. I've tried to start applying some of LRT and not send friendly texts or think of excuses to meet. She has said she'll let me decide how much of a friend I want to be. I've tried to keep busy and have even been out with her sister and friends without talking about her. We will meet for a relaxation class we do together. First contact in a week. Longest time virtually silent. Feeling nervous
