Funny enough, I lost my desire for an apology from my ex a long time ago. The best I got sometime in the beginning was a very insincere "sorry it had to be this way". He is incapapble of feeling remorse or seeing his wrongdoing and I just know what kind of person he is. He isn't sorry, and that's fine with me, finally. I think something in me was hoping to find out H was a decent human being and she felt what she did was wrong, and would apologize. It would humanize her for me and maybe we could work together a little better. I keep reading these things nd seeing these stories of the ex spouse and the new partner doing these nice things for eachother and becoming close, I thought maybe I should be feeling that way. Then again, they weren't the affair partner. I often wish she came after out divorce, but reality is she didn't. She did what she did and that I have to deal with.
Rick, you guys must make it there one day! I know she would love it and so would you! My friends and I were considering a trip next year for the food and wine festival for just us adults! My best friend's parents love out there and we would just stay with them.
