Tad, you sound as if you are not "stuck," which is so important!
I too think I came out of the whole experience finding myself a better and stronger person. My X is not a stranger to me but I don't regard him as a friend, either. In many ways I am less naive.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
