Just to keep everybody posted, I had a couple good interactions today with XF. First was a phone call after work. Usually it's a text about picking up S4 and today she called. Asked what time worked and then proceeded to talk about her day (unasked). So I got home and she texted me, said she was on hold trying to sort out a problem she told me about during the phone call. Long wait time so our plan wasn't going to work. I said, "you know what, it's raining and dark. Why don't I just bring him to you?" She was super happy about that and I got the first text thank you in months.

I got there with S4 and she seemed to be in a very good mood. More friendly and talkative than I have seen in months. Small talked a little and she thanked me 3 times as I was walking out! Yes 3! I couldn't believe it.

See where this all goes but I at least think I have her second guessing? Prior to this after any type of talk we had she was cold and distant for weeks... Which happened a lot before I found this place!

Anyways, hopeful but no expectations!

Last edited by Uphill; 11/11/15 12:26 AM.

Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home