I suppose we could split our family time (ie. 1-on-1 such as 1 kid to 1 parent).
Not sure what I can do to make the dynamic change. This is where I struggle.
DB suggest that we make small changes (do the things that work). If I take R issues W points out into consideration and work on those it will be viewed as pursuing. However, when I do these small 180s I honestly feel good about myself.
If I work on me (ie. protect myself and kids from WW actions) it comes across as selfish (a core issue W points out as my flaw).
Personal goal is working on me (ie. stop focusing on her A.. this has been a BIG obstacle for me but I am moving in the right direction.. I can feel my confidence slowly returning.. I need to kill it here big time!)
