I know you know this deep down but you have nothing to be ashamed of. Your husband made himself and the other woman look like 2 dishonest, selfish fools. I am surprised this is appropriate conduct in the schools, especially considering that OW is daughters teacher.
Sometimes I feel like the hope that comes with DB book allowed me to live a bit in denial, but I love the group on here and emphasis towards how to move forward in a healthy way.
I tell myself that all we have control of is our own behavior. We cannot waste our lives away focusing on others poor choices.
GAL seems vital. I am planning on taking my first salsa lesson today (I know how cliche that sounds). Haven't ventured into meet up groups yet, but it's my plan. Little nervous though.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015