I don't want to move out and agree with you! So do I call her bluff? She said if I don't go she will find a place and take the kids. Financially we cant afford it.
No, don't call her bluff. Stand your ground and tell her you are not the one wanting to end the marriage, so you are not leaving the home. If she wants to leave, then you won't stop her, however, neither will you help her.
Does she work outside the home? Does she have family in the same town as where you live?
If she's wanting to end the M, why do you assume you will have to be responsible for her finances?
If it were me, I would check the law in my state to see where I stood with the house, the kids, child support, etc.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
